We have been mulling over various aspects of this process. Asking ourselves questions like; Are we on track with our down payment money? Are we getting the house we want? Is our payment going to be too high? Did we opt for too many options, will we like the deserty land? etc…
So here are some things that we have been mindful of and are working for us in the financial arena of purchasing a house.
We went through our budget months ago to identify areas we could increase income and reduce expenses. We found that we were wasting money – badly wasting money.
It is our opinion, based on experience, that every married couple – should continue dating their whole lives. That has been a major win in our relationship because that dating time together – is talk time, planning time, dreaming together time, hanging time – that we don’t really get at home on normal family time. I mean – we do – but it’s not the same. So a piece of advice – if you and your spouses’ relationship is waning – start dating each other again. It’s fun and it’s the most important relationship building you can ever do. Hold hands, be courteous, get popcorn, go to dinner, chat, dream, talk. Drop the arguing and the nitsy bad feelings and see each other like you did when before you tied the knot. It really helps. Great – right? But! – Don’t overspend every single weekend if you’re trying to save. We thought there was no way to save money on our income. We found that our date nights had turned in to expensive date nights – every single weekend. So we cut back on the cost of our date nights together to save money. Bam! That’s a great chunk of our budget we have control of and – we still date. And it is the best time we have all week together. 🙂 It doesn’t take money to date by the way… at least – not much.
Other areas we found we could cut back – stop eating out at lunch or breakfast. If you know you have to work or be somewhere, you know that you have to eat. We gave ourselves a $300 raise each month just by reducing or eliminating most of our eating out. We still grab a bite every few weeks with the kids. But we’re spending smarter now. Lean Cuisine – is a great lunch. And they’re cheap especially if you bargain shop. Protein drinks/bars, Edomame, PB&J, Salad, – holy cow – my lunches are healthier and ‘cheaper’ than ever. Julie makes homemade bread every week. No sugar, no preservatives, and it costs – pennies compared to store bought. ( If anyone wants her recipe, let us know. It is soft and wonderful.)
Reduce gas by carpooling. I never ever thought I’d go this route. But we can cut our monthly fuel bill down from $240 to $120 by just splitting some driving with someone else at work. Divided by 4 – that’s an even better savings but that takes some commitment from your fellow workers and some logistics. So pick your pain point – but there’s money to be saved there as well.
Plan your driving. Rearrange where your kids go for activities so that you’re saving money driving or getting their piano teachers closer. We’re saving another $50 a month just getting a piano teacher closer to our home. And she’s great too!
Car payments? Reduce them to nothing or cut them in half. We had purchased this nice GMC Yukon 3 years ago and still had $11k to pay on it and it still carried a big payment! So we checked with our Credit Union on the interest rates to refinance that puppy since no one in the world will buy it for what we owe. We cut our payment down from $430 to $240… more monthly savings and the interest rate went from 9% down to 2.78%!! Do you see how going at this budget thing can work in your favor?
We love BMW. Yep – and we cannot afford an $80k-$110k car on our current income. No way. But the older models – are awesome too! And the right models can be very reliable and economical to maintain. So I found a 1990 535i which is a base model bimmer, with 100,000 miles on it and in great shape and almost perfect running order. A granny owned it since she bought it new and garaged it every winter. I’ve had it for over a year now with no problems. We paid $3k for it with some tax return money. It’s as dependable as the day is long. If I was a Honda guy, I’d be doing even better since they get another 8-10 mpg better than my car. But, I’m driving a car that I love and it’s paid for and well – not a bad selection. A late 90’s model – would be even better for me – but I can’t find one. If I do – I’ll only pay cash for it.
Ask yourself before you buy anything – “Do I really need this?” Learn to be honest with yourself and then put it back on the shelf and walk away. In fact – leave the store so you don’t buy something you don’t need. Apply this to online stuff too. If you can’t resist buying when you’re surfing the net – then stay away from those sites. Change your reading to Kindle, the News, Wikipedia – something other than shopping.
You’ll find that you can probably save 10-20% of your income every month ( on top of your 401k contributions ) if you try. It’s not an overnight thing. But over a month or two, you may find that you have been leaking money everywhere. Start plugging those holes and watch your monthly savings increase and boy – is that fun!
Eliminate debt immediately or as expeditiously as you possibly can. You’ll feel the release and the power you have gained over your budget.
Keep and use one credit card with a very low limit and never let it go above 1/3 the balance for any extended time. That will build your credit score really fast in just 6 months. The rest of those cards – get rid of them. They’re poison to your budget, your spending habits, and will enslave you if you’re not careful.
In 6 months to a year – you can easily save for a down payment on the house that fits your budget. But even if it took you a 1 or 2 years, its worth it. There’s nothing like having the family involved in learning to save money.
Our results with this approach has been astounding for us.
We had a bit of a surprise when we asked the builder what the time line was for our move-in date. We had originally thought that it would be around April or May since that is what all the other home owners we spoke with, using the same builder, said their time frames were. But the builder said that we’re closing the first week of March. Yikes!! We’re moving the first week of March!! And do we have the funds to do it – We have all that we need for the down payment and just a few buck short for the full closing costs. And we did it in just a 5 month period. If we can do it – you can do it.
Remember – the key – is to be within your budget on everything. Your house, your car, your expenses. Being out of budget – means that this little plan would not work. Budgeting can be fun, especially when there’s a prize in the box. :-0
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